He is just not that into you…

Yes I read the book, watched the movie, did the test…and at the time I thought it was so obvious – how could anyone not see the very clear signs? But today I realised I had been sucked into it – and the thought which started as a whisper is now screaming in my head – maybe, just maybe he is just not that into you…

He is just not that into you when you realise that you always initiate contact – he never looks for you, never wonders how you are doing, never stays up googling for clues on what is going on with your life. No, his life just goes on and each time you meet up (after you have initiated contact AGAIN), he has no idea what you have been up to, though you know his life story back to front and inside out…

He is just not that into you when he finally tells you that he loves you…well, he actually doesnt use the L word but he expresses something that you KNOW means he loves you then he disappears for a week (until you initiate contact AGAIN). It doesnt take you long to realise that he wasnt responding because he was with someone else – and he doesnt even deny it, tells you that its his “friend” who really gets him. In fact she gets him so much thats why she was sleeping over at his place looking after him while he was ill with the flu – “oh, didn’t I tell you I had the flu?” he says “Everyone knew”.  Everyone except me the person you claim is your “soulmate”.

He is just not that into you when you stop talking to him and he doesnt even bother to find out why. If he had asked you would have told him that you are mad that he is just not that into you and yet you were going to turn your whole world over and give up your entire life for him. You would have told him that when he mentioned his “friend who gets him” your heart seized and you were filled with the most intense jealousy. You would have told him that you spent the whole night trying to figure out if she was younger, prettier, more intelligent.

He is just not that into you when he doesnt get in touch as you start the painstaking process of getting over being so utterly, completely into him.

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